\u018fziz oxucu\u2026 o\u011flum, q\u0131z\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n
Bu kitab\u0131 yazma\u011fa ba\u015flayanda i\u00e7imd\u0259 birc\u0259 c\u00fcml\u0259 dola\u015f\u0131rd\u0131: \u201cKa\u015f kims\u0259 vaxt\u0131nda m\u0259n\u0259 bunlar\u0131 des\u0259ydi.\u201d H\u0259yat el\u0259 qurulub ki, \u0259n vacib s\u00f6zl\u0259ri insan ya gec e\u015fidir, ya da e\u015fid\u0259nd\u0259 art\u0131q i\u00e7ind\u0259 n\u0259s\u0259 s\u0131nm\u0131\u015f olur. M\u0259n ist\u0259dim ki, bu s\u00f6zl\u0259r s\u0259n\u0259 q\u0131r\u0131lmadan \u00e7ats\u0131n v\u0259 b\u0259zi a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 ya\u015fayaraq yox, anlayaraq ke\u00e7\u0259s\u0259n. \u00c7\u00fcnki insan\u0131n h\u0259yatda \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck itkisi n\u0259 pulunu itirm\u0259si, n\u0259 imkanlar\u0131n\u0131 \u0259ld\u0259n verm\u0259si, n\u0259 d\u0259 kiml\u0259rins\u0259 ondan uzaqla\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fn a\u011f\u0131r itki \u2013 insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n uzaq d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n
Bu \u201cN\u0259sih\u0259tnam\u0259\u201d qada\u011falar kitab\u0131 deyil. M\u0259n burada s\u0259n\u0259 \u201cbunu et, bunu etm\u0259\u201d deyib h\u0259yat\u0131 iki r\u0259ng\u0259 b\u00f6lm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m. H\u0259yat el\u0259 deyil: h\u0259yat \u00e7ox vaxt i\u015f\u0131qla qaranl\u0131\u011f\u0131n aras\u0131nda yox, bozlu\u011fun i\u00e7ind\u0259 q\u0259rar verm\u0259kdir; b\u0259z\u0259n do\u011fru il\u0259 rahat\u0131n, b\u0259z\u0259n s\u0259brl\u0259 q\u00fcrurun, b\u0259z\u0259n m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259tl\u0259 s\u0259rh\u0259din aras\u0131nda se\u00e7im etm\u0259kdir. M\u0259qs\u0259dim s\u0259nd\u0259 qorxu yaratmaq yox, se\u00e7imin\u0259 ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tirm\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n
S\u0259hvini tam silm\u0259k b\u0259lk\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil, amma vicdan\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259sini g\u00fccl\u0259ndirm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u0130nsan b\u00fcdr\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r; lakin b\u0259l\u0259d\u00e7i varsa, art\u0131q qaranl\u0131qda kor-koran\u0259 getm\u0259z: add\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259r, t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259ni \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n duyar, yolunu daha do\u011fru se\u00e7\u0259r. Bu kitab\u0131 siz\u0259 b\u0259l\u0259d\u00e7i olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yazd\u0131m: h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 y\u00fcng\u00fcll\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k, yolunuzu se\u00e7m\u0259k v\u0259 daha do\u011fru add\u0131mlar atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u2013 bir s\u0259s kimi.<\/p>\n
Bilin ki, bu kitab \u201coxuyub bitirm\u0259k\u201d \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil. M\u0259n onu d\u00f6n\u0259-d\u00f6n\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131lan bir kitab kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m. Yorulanda a\u00e7\u0131n. Q\u0259rars\u0131z qalanda yenid\u0259n qay\u0131d\u0131n. Q\u0259lbiniz daralanda bir c\u00fcml\u0259 se\u00e7in v\u0259 onu el\u0259 oxuyun ki, sanki \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz-\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 deyirsiniz.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnki b\u0259z\u0259n insan\u0131n bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc bir c\u00fcml\u0259 xilas edir: d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259ni d\u00fcz\u0259ld\u0259n bir s\u00f6z, niyy\u0259ti t\u0259mizl\u0259y\u0259n bir x\u0259b\u0259rdarl\u0131q, q\u00fcruru yum\u015faldan bir xat\u0131rlatma. H\u0259yatdak\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r d\u0259 \u00e7ox vaxt insan\u0131n vaxt\u0131nda \u201c\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259si\u201d v\u0259 ki\u00e7ik bir add\u0131m atmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u201cN\u0259sih\u0259tnam\u0259\u201dd\u0259 toxundu\u011fum m\u00f6vzular s\u0259nin g\u00fcnd\u0259lik h\u0259yat\u0131nda h\u0259r g\u00fcn qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rdir: ail\u0259, sevgi, s\u0259rh\u0259d, z\u0259hm\u0259t, pul, zaman, m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t v\u0259 etibar. M\u0259n ail\u0259ni \u201cideal obraz\u201d kimi b\u0259z\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m; onu oldu\u011fu kimi t\u0259svir etmi\u015f\u0259m: yorulan, s\u0131nanan, b\u0259z\u0259n susan, b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 yenid\u0259n diril\u0259n bir canl\u0131 kimi. \u00c7\u00fcnki ail\u0259 t\u0259kc\u0259 ev deyil \u2013 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tidir; s\u00f6z\u00fcn tonudur; qap\u0131n\u0131n nec\u0259 ba\u011flanmas\u0131d\u0131r; sakitliyin i\u00e7ind\u0259ki h\u00f6rm\u0259tdir; b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcr\u00fcl\u0259n y\u00fckd\u00fcr; qorunan s\u0259rh\u0259ddir. \u018fn \u0259sas\u0131 is\u0259 \u201cm\u0259n haql\u0131yam\u201d dey\u0259-dey\u0259 bir-birini itirm\u0259m\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n
Bu kitabda \u201cS\u0259n m\u0259nim g\u00fczg\u00fcms\u0259n\u201d dey\u0259n valideyn hissi d\u0259 var, ata il\u0259 o\u011ful aras\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259n k\u00f6rp\u00fc kimi qalan susqun sevgil\u0259r d\u0259. \u00c7\u00fcnki biz \u00e7ox vaxt sevdikl\u0259rimizi incitdiyimizi g\u00f6rm\u00fcr\u00fck v\u0259 bunu \u201cqorumaq\u201d kimi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fck. B\u0259z\u0259n onlar\u0131 qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q y\u00fckl\u0259yirik; sonra y\u0131\u011f\u0131lan yor\u011funluq v\u0259 \u0259s\u0259b bir anda \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r v\u0259 \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r s\u00f6zl\u0259ri d\u0259 el\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox sevdikl\u0259rimiz\u0259 deyirik. \u0130st\u0259dim ki, s\u0259n sevgini t\u0259kc\u0259 hiss kimi yox, m\u0259suliyy\u0259t kimi d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n: s\u00f6z\u00fcn m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti, bax\u0131\u015f\u0131n m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti, susma\u011f\u0131n m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti.<\/p>\n
B\u0259z\u0259n insan\u0131n \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck sava\u015f\u0131 evin xaricind\u0259 deyil, el\u0259 evin i\u00e7ind\u0259 \u2013 \u00f6z daxilind\u0259 ba\u015f verir: \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259, q\u00fcruru il\u0259, t\u0259xir\u0259 salmalar\u0131 il\u0259, g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259ri, pax\u0131ll\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 qorxular\u0131 il\u0259\u2026 Bu kitabla s\u0259n\u0259 birc\u0259 s\u00f6z dem\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m: n\u0259 olursa olsun, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc itirm\u0259. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 \u0259dal\u0259tli ol: n\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 g\u00fcnahkar \u00e7\u0131xar, n\u0259 d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 at. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259nqid et, amma \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc al\u00e7altma. D\u00fc\u015f, amma yerd\u0259 qalma. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u201ch\u0259r \u015fey gecdir\u201d dey\u0259n fikir \u00e7ox vaxt h\u0259qiq\u0259t deyil \u2013 sad\u0259c\u0259 yor\u011funlu\u011fun s\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcasir d\u00fcnyan\u0131n s\u0259s-k\u00fcy\u00fc is\u0259 ba\u015fqa bir imtahand\u0131r. Ham\u0131 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, ham\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259sir, ham\u0131 n\u0259s\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r insan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259m i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131ra bil\u0259r, h\u0259m d\u0259 k\u00f6lg\u0259sini uzada bil\u0259r. \u015eayi\u0259 v\u0259 dedi-qodu bir s\u00f6z kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, amma b\u0259z\u0259n bir \u00f6mr\u00fc yaralayan b\u0131\u00e7a\u011fa \u00e7evrilir. Burada s\u0259n\u0259 sad\u0259 bir \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc verm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m: s\u00f6z dey\u0259nd\u0259 el\u0259 bil s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn yerind\u0259 s\u0259n ol. Kimins\u0259 sirrini e\u015fid\u0259nd\u0259 bil ki, o s\u0259n\u0259 \u00f6z \u201cz\u0259if yerini\u201d g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Birinin a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evirm\u0259. \u00c7\u00fcnki insanl\u0131q pay\u0131 m\u0259hz bel\u0259 x\u0131rda m\u0259qamlarda azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Pul m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sin\u0259 d\u0259 x\u00fcsusi toxunmu\u015fam. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 pul insan\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259 al\u0259t olmaqdan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b, b\u0259z\u0259n \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259 b\u00fct\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. Pul laz\u0131md\u0131r, amma pul \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 itirm\u0259k faci\u0259dir. Borc g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k olar, amma \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fc bilm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Kredit b\u0259z\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yoludur, b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 insan\u0131 bo\u011fan y\u00fck\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. M\u0259n s\u0259n\u0259 burada \u201cvarl\u0131 ol\u201d demir\u0259m \u2013 \u201cd\u00fcz ol\u201d deyir\u0259m: halal qazan, \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fc bil, israfdan qa\u00e7, z\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t et. \u00c7\u00fcnki z\u0259hm\u0259tin b\u0259r\u0259k\u0259ti t\u0259kc\u0259 qazancda deyil \u2013 insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tind\u0259dir.<\/p>\n
Bu kitab\u0131n m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 bir anlay\u0131\u015f dayan\u0131r: maskas\u0131z ya\u015famaq. \u0130nsan ham\u0131n\u0131n raz\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 qazanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox vaxt \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc itirir. Bir yerd\u0259 g\u00fcl\u00fcr, i\u00e7ind\u0259 a\u011flay\u0131r. Bir yerd\u0259 susur, i\u00e7ind\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131r. Bir yerd\u0259 \u201ch\u0259\u201d deyir, i\u00e7ind\u0259 \u201cyox\u201d ya\u015fay\u0131r. M\u0259n ist\u0259dim ki, s\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bel\u0259 par\u00e7alamayasan. S\u0259rh\u0259d qoyma\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnah saymayasan. \u201cYox\u201d dem\u0259yi q\u0259ddarl\u0131q z\u0259nn etm\u0259y\u0259s\u0259n. \u00c7\u00fcnki insan \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc qoruyanda pis olmur; insan \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc qorumayanda is\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259ki yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q da t\u00fck\u0259nir.<\/p>\n
\u018fziz oxucu\u2026 o\u011flum, q\u0131z\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n
Bu \u201cN\u0259sih\u0259tnam\u0259\u201dni s\u0259n\u0259 bir yadigar kimi yox, bir yol yolda\u015f\u0131 kimi verir\u0259m. M\u0259nim s\u00f6z\u00fcm s\u0259nin yerin\u0259 ya\u015faya bilm\u0259z; amma b\u0259lk\u0259 add\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 bir az ayd\u0131nlada bil\u0259r. B\u0259z\u0259n bir c\u00fcml\u0259 insan\u0131 xilas etmir, amma insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc xilas etm\u0259sin\u0259 yol a\u00e7\u0131r. M\u0259n d\u0259 el\u0259 bunu ist\u0259yir\u0259m: s\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc itirm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, h\u0259yat n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tin olsa da, i\u00e7ind\u0259 bir i\u015f\u0131q yanacaq.<\/p>\n
Sonda s\u0259n\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259yim \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck n\u0259sih\u0259t budur: h\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n bir sual soru\u015f \u2013 \u201cBu g\u00fcn vicdan\u0131m qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda n\u0259 etdim?\u201d Bu sual s\u0259ninl\u0259 ya\u015fasa, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n b\u0259l\u0259d\u00e7isi d\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 yan\u0131nda olacaq.<\/p>\n
Sevgi v\u0259 dua il\u0259\u2026<\/p>\n
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\u018fziz oxucu\u2026 o\u011flum, q\u0131z\u0131m\u2026 Bu kitab\u0131 yazma\u011fa ba\u015flayanda i\u00e7imd\u0259 birc\u0259 c\u00fcml\u0259 dola\u015f\u0131rd\u0131: \u201cKa\u015f kims\u0259 vaxt\u0131nda m\u0259n\u0259 bunlar\u0131 des\u0259ydi.\u201d H\u0259yat el\u0259 qurulub ki, \u0259n vacib s\u00f6zl\u0259ri insan ya gec e\u015fidir, ya da e\u015fid\u0259nd\u0259 art\u0131q i\u00e7ind\u0259 n\u0259s\u0259 s\u0131nm\u0131\u015f olur. M\u0259n ist\u0259dim ki, bu s\u00f6zl\u0259r s\u0259n\u0259 q\u0131r\u0131lmadan \u00e7ats\u0131n v\u0259 b\u0259zi a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 ya\u015fayaraq yox, anlayaraq ke\u00e7\u0259s\u0259n. \u00c7\u00fcnki insan\u0131n h\u0259yatda […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":984,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[45],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-981","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-edbiyyat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/981","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=981"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/981\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":983,"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/981\/revisions\/983"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/984"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=981"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=981"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/imza.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=981"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}